Showing posts with label frugal celebrations. Show all posts
Showing posts with label frugal celebrations. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Graduating in Style - Without Busting Our Clothing Budget!


My younger son's grade 8 graduation ceremony was yesterday afternoon. It seemed pretty surreal, especially since this was his first-ever year of school! And of course there's nothing like being packed into a non-air-conditioned school auditorium with a few hundred other people during a humid Southern Ontario heatwave :)

While the school encouraged parents not to spend too much on fancy clothing and told the kids to dress "like they were going out somewhere special with their family", of course all the kids had their own ideas about what was appropriate! I remember us all getting dressed up pretty fancy for my own grade 8 graduation, and these kids wanted to do the same.

Nathan was determined that he wanted an outfit comprised of a dress shirt, vest and dress pants, as this is what all his friends decided they were going to wear. As his usual attire is more along the lines of a pair of Adidas shorts, a T-shirt and a pair of sneakers, we didn't exactly have anything to draw on from his current wardrobe. Add to that the fact that all our schedules have been crazy busy of late and we didn't end up coordinating a time for him to go out shopping with his dad until Saturday (3 days before the event!) and we were all feeling a bit stressed about whether we'd be able to pull things together!

Thankfully, when Joe and Nathan finally did go on the hunt for an outfit, they hit paydirt at their first stop (Value Village). They were able to get the dress shirt, vest and pants in the above photo - all for just under $25! Thankfully Nathan, who doesn't own a pair of dress shoes, has the same size feet as Joe so he was able to borrow his dad's black dress shoes and socks to complete the outfit.

He was pleased with his fancy look (and he did indeed fit right in with what many of the other boys were wearing) and we didn't have to spend a ridiculous amount of money for him to get all spiffed up for his graduation ceremony. I was pretty glad about that since he ended up taking those clothes off ASAP after the ceremony and changing into his "normal" attire to head over to the dinner/dance afterwards! I'm sure he'll probably get a bit more mileage out of the shirt and pants in the future, too, since they are both basic wardrobe staple pieces.

While this wasn't quite as impressive a feat as the time I pulled off my $10 holiday outfit a year and a half ago, we were all satisfied that we put together a good outfit for a great price.

Have you managed to pull together a stylish yet frugal outfit for a graduation, wedding or other formal occasion lately?

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Our Frugal Stocking Stuffer Plan


Last week I shared our frugal gifting plans for this Christmas, and I promised to come back and share our stocking stuffer plans this week.

(BTW, if you're a member of my immediate family, you better not be reading this post or you won't be very surprised on Christmas morning ::grin::)

There's no doubt about it, you can rip right through your entire holiday gift budget on stocking stuffers alone if you're not careful. Our stockings are by no means extravagantly filled, but I'd rather have a smaller amount of good quality items than a large amount of crap! Since we are all foodies around here, you'll notice most of the items are of an edible nature :)

I actually happen to (mostly) know what's going in my own stocking this year, too, which is fine with me. I think hubby also has a couple of small surprises up his sleeve to add to the goodies I already know about.

What goes in ALL of our stockings:
-Homemade candies (cracker toffee, candied peanuts)
-Chai-Chocolate Chip Biscotti
-An apple and a clementine or two (traditional for the very bottom of the stocking!)

What's going in the boys' stockings:
-Mint Meltaway chocolates (from Walker's Chocolates, a local business)
-Gift cards for Subway and Tim Hortons (These will cost us nothing out of pocket as my husband received them as gifts. There are locations of each right in our neighbourhood, and since the boys are now teenagers they enjoy going there with friends)
-Glee Gum (an all-natural chewing gum)
-Gingerbread Spice tea (a favourite with both of them)
-a can of Blue Sky natural soda (These were on sale for 69 cents each at Fortinos. I used a $1.00-off-when-you-buy-2 online printable coupon from The Healthy Shopper and got both cans for 59 cents total, including tax!)
-Assorted pens, pencils and erasers (they've almost used up their stash from the fall)

What's going in hubby's stocking:
-Camino chocolate covered coffee beans (Fair Trade, organic, and yummy, purchased through ONFC)
-Camino Dark Mint chocolate bar (purchased on sale at Fortino's)
-A homemade citrus-spice herbal tea blend
-A bar of the manly-scented "His" glycerin bar soap from The Guelph Soap Company (locally produced)

What's going in MY stocking:
-Camino raw cacao nibs (Fair Trade, organic and kind of addictive - purchased through ONFC)
-Vanilla Body Butter from The All Natural Face (I received a $5.00 gift code from this company, no minimum purchase. I ended up paying only $3.00 *with* shipping for this product. This contains both mango butter and jojoba oil, neither of which I've tried before, so I look forward to giving it a whirl).
-A bar of Honey, Goat's Milk and Oatmeal soap from The Guelph Soap Company

There may be some other last-minute additions to this list, but these items will make up the bulk of our stockings. I don't have an exact total spent because I still have to buy a few of these items, but my rough estimate is that we will come in under $30 to fill 4 stockings! The cost for the homemade food items comes out of our grocery budget so I'm not counting them in the total, but that would probably add only another $5-$10 even if you did add those expenses in. I'm pleased that we were able to include a variety of locally and/or ethically produced items, while staying within our modest budget!

What are you filling stockings with this year?

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Our Frugal Christmas Gift Plan for 2012


Our Christmas plans for this year look a lot different than last year's did. Our gift budget is MUCH smaller this year and basically we are aiming for another Hundred Dollar Holiday, more or less (well, hopefully not much more!)

(If you're on my gift list, please stop reading NOW as there are major gift spoilers ahead!)

Hubby and I have agreed that we are going to be very modest with gifts for each other this year. In fact, there are not really going to be any surprises for either of us as we have made specific requests of what we would like. I don't really mind this at all as I know I'll receive things I want and/or need and that no money or effort's been wasted on something I will eventually consign to the "donate" bin.

I've asked Joe to get two things fixed for me this year: my sports watch, which needs both a new battery and band, and the Lagostina Dutch oven I bought at a yard sale for $4 on the Victoria Day weekend. Although the Dutch oven appeared to be in very good condition when I gave it a quick inspection pre-purchase, as it turns out a tiny part of the bottom is coming away from the main part of the pot. It looks like it should be fixable with a small solder, and Joe knows someone who should be able to do this repair. I'm also getting one new item, the Celestial Tea Strainer from Mountain Rose Herbs (more about them later in this post). I'm experimenting more and more with loose blends of herbs for teas, so this is both a functional and beautiful addition to my tea making supplies.

Joe has requested new flannel pajama pants and boxers, both of which he definitely needs! We may also end up doing a quick thrift store shopping trip and picking out a small item each that we both want, depending on how much gets spent on other gifts.

Christmas gifts on a budget for teenage boys can be pretty tricky, I have to admit! I have come up with what I believe to be a decent plan, though: NEW BIKES! Both boys really need new bikes and have been riding bikes that were a bit too small for them for the last year or so. They are now both adult size (both taller than me!) and need adult-sized bikes. We are hoping to put together two suitable bikes for under $50. Thankfully Joe has a lot of experience rebuilding bikes so hopefully we can make this happen. We already have the bike for my older son, a good quality Peugeot that Joe trash-picked a couple years back (it's appallingly easy to trash-pick decent bikes when you live close to a university). It's been patiently awaiting some TLC and repair. Thankfully it doesn't need too many parts replaced - just a few broken spokes and some elbow (and bike) grease! My younger son really wants a road bike rather than a mountain bike, so we're hoping to track something down at Recycle Cycles or New Hope Bikes. Kijiji is another possibility; however I'd rather purchase from one of the bike organizations as it will help support cycling promotion in our city. We definitely need to get a move on this to get things done before Christmas!

For my 15 year old, a passionate climber, we're also going to purchase this Knots & Ropes for Climbers book from Mountain Equipment Co-op. For my 13 year old, (my artistic kid) I'm planning on buying some decent quality markers from the Canadian-owned chain Curry's Art Store (and the local store is conveniently located within walking distance of home, too!)

Of course there will be stockings, too - I'll discuss what we're filling those with next week, so stay tuned :)

As far as friends and family go, I am keeping it simple this year and everyone is basically getting a combination of books, homemade salve and a food basket.

The books are from two sources: my gift cupboard stash (yard-saled for under a dollar apiece) and an unexpected but gratefully received recent windfall of free books passed on to me by a friend - about 4 dozen books! I divided these into 3 categories: books someone in our house would like to read, books in brand-new giftable condition, and books that we didn't need and were too worn out for gifting. The final category got passed on to a new home through Freecycle, and quite miraculously, there is something to suit nearly everyone on my list in the "giftable" book pile (thank goodness my friends and family are all avid readers!)

The homemade salve I am making is a variation of this Simple Lavender Salve from A Delightful Home - I am going to double the recipe and use half lavender, half calendula to provide a truly skin-soothing salve for our harsh Canadian winters!

Food baskets are something everyone on our Christmas list has come to expect from us; we've been doing them for years and I think if we ever stopped there would be some very disappointed people in our gift-giving circle :)

This year we'll be doing the "standard" items we always include like pickles and Cran-Raspberry Jam (I have some Ontario-grown cranberries stashed in the freezer for this recipe), herb vinegar, homemade candies (Cracker Toffee, Chocolate Barks and Candied Peanuts), Granola and Chocolate-Peanut GranolaI'm also going to be trying my hand at something new: creating my own herbal tea blends using herbs from Mountain Rose Herbs. I'm anxiously awaiting my first order from them right now and hoping it arrives early this week! I usually include some type of quick bread in my gift baskets too, but I haven't made up my mind what I'm making this year (although I guess I better do that soon, huh?)

Want more ideas for creating a great holiday on a small budget? Find all of my Christmas on a Dime posts here, and check out my Homemade Christmas board on Pinterest - I'm always adding new ideas to it!

What are your plans for frugal gift-giving this year?

(P.S. If there's someone on your gift list with a tight grocery budget, please consider giving them a copy of my book. It's successfully helped lots of people reduce their food bill by 40-60% while still eating well (no extreme couponing required!). You could even make a gift basket with some of the staple items necessary for the recipes. YOU can help make a family's life a little easier this Christmas with this thoughtful gift).

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Saturday, October 27, 2012

I'm Dreaming of a Waste-Free Christmas


I know, I know - it's not even Halloween and here I am talking about Christmas! Actually, I'm a bit late getting around to Christmas-oriented discussions this year (just like I've been behind in most everything else these last few months.)

For the last couple of weeks I've been intending to write a "getting prepared for Christmas" type of post but as I've been mulling things over it's sort of transformed itself from my original intent. As so often happens in life (well, at least in my life!), a particular issue suddenly comes to the forefront of our attention and grabs us in a way that takes over our focus.

For me, it's been the non-sexy topic of waste. When I was writing my book, I ended up thinking about and researching food waste far beyond my original intent and it's an issue about which I've become passionate. I'll have a lot more to say about that in the coming weeks. Food waste issues led me to thinking more about packaging waste and garbage, recycling, and plastic...it's snowballed and taken on a life of its own!

Although I consider myself someone who doesn't waste much (buying a lot of items secondhand and often finding second uses for things most people would toss), I've realized I could be doing even better than I am at avoiding waste of all kinds, and that it's time for me to take on some new challenges in this department. While there are many small changes that I plan on writing more about over the coming weeks, I wanted to start thinking NOW about ways I can reduce waste over the holiday season, since being prepared is half of the battle!

As I sat here and contemplated further, I realized not only do I want to avoid material waste, but wasted time, energy and money, too (well, that last one goes without saying around here!)

Here are some of my current ideas about how to reduce ALL of these kinds of waste this holiday season:

Just say NO: Well, that does sound a bit Scrooge-like, but I think you know what I'm getting at :) Your family's holiday time and resources are precious so don't overcommit to social activities or gift giving. Pick the few activities that are meaningful and politely decline the rest. More and more people seem to be open to discussions about toning down or eliminating gift-giving and now is a good time to start those conversations before people start shopping.

Favour experience-type gifts, food gifts, and other simple homemade items: These types of gifts are very well received in my experience, and generate little waste. I'm aiming for totally reusable packaging this year, with any "adornments" to the packaging from recycled and reused materials. You can find 10 of my favourite quick & easy homemade Christmas gift ideas here. If you do choose to purchase new items, pick ones with minimal packaging that is recyclable or reusable..

Consider giving less gifts: I am a big believer that less can be more when it comes to gift-giving. I've watched as my kids have gone from content and satisfied after opening a couple of well-chosen gifts, to frenzied and overwhelmed after opening a large pile more. When it comes right down to it, most of us don't really need much in the way of "stuff" these days. Taking the time to mindfully choose that one special gift ensures that the gift-giving experience will be satisfying for both the giver and the receiver.

Choose reusable wrapping options: Gift bags can be reused many times and most of us frugal folks have a big stash we've saved from previous years. Cloth bags or furoshiki are an even better option as they will last much longer than paper gift bags. I've recently become infatuated with the latter and plan to see if I can make some furoshiki squares from scrap fabrics I have lying around the house. Some extra-large T-shirts would be great to cut up for this purpose as T-shirt material doesn't fray so you won't have to hem them. I still have some wrapping paper in my stash and I want to challenge myself to have that be the last wrapping paper I buy!

Switch to a digital holiday greeting tradition: Christmas cards generate an astounding amount of waste. I know they are fun to receive, but where do they all end up when the season is over? We do save ours to recycle into gift tags, etc, but we already have more than we can use for the next decade or so! We stopped sending holiday cards a few years ago - both for environmental reasons and because neither of us particularly enjoyed the task of assembling and mailing (not to mention the cost of the postage). Also, with Facebook and email, we're in more regular touch with most people these days anyway, so the holiday greeting doesn't seem as necessary as it did when you didn't hear from friends and family all that often. One thing we neglected to do, however, was actually tell the people on our list that we no longer send out cards. I think some of them may think that we just don't love them anymore (oops!) This year I plan to send out a holiday email with photos and updates on our year. That way everyone will know that we're thinking of them, they'll get to see what we've been up to (if they don't already know), and there won't be any waste generated.

Tone down the decorating: Now, don't get me wrong - I love making the house all festive at Christmas time. I just think buying a lot of (usually way overpackaged) stuff to decorate with is unnecessary. I don't need more "trimmings or trappings" at my house. I can make good use of what I already have, and if I want to add something new I can probably create it with things I already have around the house or by gathering some natural materials from around the neighbourhood. Garlands can be made with cranberry or popcorn strings (both of which can be composted when you're done with them). If you really do need some "new" Christmas decorations, check Freecycle, thrift stores and yard sales - there are always tons of holiday items available! We do get a real tree every year (this is important to all 4 of us) and luckily our city recycles the trees for a variety of uses in the community.

Plan your feast carefully: I know this is the one time of year where it's easy for me to get carried away with all those special holiday foods. But you all know that food waste makes me crazy! So, yes, make sure your favourite foods are all represented at your festive meals, just try to be realistic about how much will get eaten and have a plan in place for dealing with any leftovers. For any leftover items that are highly perishable, consider sending extras home with guests (in reusable containers, please!) Also, if you're hosting a party, use regular dishes instead of disposables. If you happen to have a really cool group of friends, you could make it a BYOD party (bring your own dishes) where all the guests bring their plates and flatware, thus reducing the dish-doing strain on the hosts.

I'm feeling pretty optimistic that we can pull off a (nearly) waste-free Christmas this year!

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Wednesday, September 29, 2010

How to Celebrate a Tween Birthday Without Breaking the Bank


Today is my younger son's 11th birthday! We've already had most of the festivities this past weekend, so I thought I'd share some of our fun and frugal party strategies.

When the boys were younger, it was easy to create successful parties for next to nothing - we did the typical little kid party games and I got creative for the party favors (I did everything from home-grown spider plants in plastic beach pails to laminated personalized place mats that I created on the computer). Now that my boys are older (and they still have the same friends coming to their parties!) it's gotten a bit trickier to throw a shindig that will satisfy their more sophisticated tastes. I've done movies-and-a-sleepover type parties for the past couple of years (with the movies mostly borrowed from the library) and didn't quite think I could get away with that again with the same guests on the list!

Here's what we ended up doing:

Entertainment:
After contemplating a variety of entertainment options for six boys aged 9 to 15 (my two plus four guests of varying age), we settled on taking them bowling, as all the kids were interested in it and it wasn't as ridiculously expensive as some of the other activities we'd checked out. My husband called around to the local bowling alleys, and found a fairly significant cost difference - we saved $2 a kid, or $12 total, just by checking prices beforehand and going to the less expensive bowling alley.

The frugal gods must have been smiling on us, as we ended up with an unexpected surprise benefit by going to this bowling alley: My husband was given coupons for a free game (one for each person who attended) - they don't have an expiry date, which means we can take my older son's friends bowling for FREE on his birthday in just a few weeks (well, almost free - we'll still have to pay for the shoe rental but that's only $1.60 a kid).

Cost: $39 (with a potential $30 in savings if we use the free game coupons)

Food:
I made up a big batch of Sloppy Joes (I had lots of sale-priced burger buns stashed in the freezer), whipped up some cheese sauce to pour over a bag of tortilla chips, and did a platter of sliced raw veggies (carrots, cucumber and red pepper - the pepper was from our garden). I also spurged on three 2 litre bottles of store-brand pop (which I only buy for special occasions!)

I baked our standard chocolate cake recipe, which is supposed to make a 9" x 13" cake. Since we were having a second party with extended family two days after the kid party, I divided the batter and baked one 8" x 8" cake and a dozen cupcakes. Everything got frosted with Seven Minute Frosting, and I had lots of sprinkles from previous parties to top them off. I served the cupcakes at the kid party and saved the square cake for the family party.

Cost: essentially free, as all the food costs came out of our standard monthly food budget

Gift:
My son really wanted a particular game for his PlayStation 3 (I might add that he saved up for the system with his brother and they bought it entirely with their own money). Since it was a recent, popular release, even used copies were selling for $60, which was more than we wanted to spend. We told him we'd do the best we could to get it, and also asked him for a "back up" gift choice in case we weren't able to find his first choice at a good price. Hubby and I got busy looking on Kijiji for a used copy at a bargain price. I found several copies selling for $40-45, although they were getting sold fast! My husband eventually contacted a guy who was selling a copy for $40 and said he'd drop it off at our place. Unfortunately, he no-showed on us - twice!! This actually ended up working out to our benefit, as somehow my husband tracked down another copy with an asking price of only $25. This time he went and picked it up himself. We were extremely pleased to get my son's first-choice game for less than half what it was selling for at the game shop (yes, it was in good condition and works fine).

Cost: $25

Extras:
After bowling, dinner, and gift-opening, there was a whole lot of gaming and movie watching! The movies were free from the library. For an extra treat, I made up little candy cups for each of the kids with candy we'd bought at the local bulk food store, dividing it equally into small reusable plastic drinking cups. Two of the guests slept over and my husband made them all pancakes in the morning.

Cost:  $6.77 for the candy

Extended Family Party:
We had my dad, his girlfriend, my grandmother and my aunt over for a family celebration.

On the menu:
hamburgers and hot dogs (the hamburger patties were homemade, buns were from my sale-price stash)
assorted pickles (dills, sweet pickles, mustard beans - all home canned)
potato salad
apple and carrot salad
cheese tray
raw vegetable tray

beer, wine, ginger ale (my dad brought the wine)

chocolate cake and apple crisp
coffee

Again, all the food costs came out of our standard monthly food budget, so no additional expenses were involved.

Total cost for the weekend festivities: $70.77

As my goal was to keep the total expenses under $75, I'm pretty satisfied! And so was my son, who was thrilled with his weekend of partying.

Now, you'll have to excuse me, I have a Birthday Boy to go hug!
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